“Everyone has a mental state of mind that makes them focus on their position in life. That is what attitude is about. It’s that vantage point of view which determines our perspective towards situations in life and empowers us to translate such perspective into reality. The entire skeleton of our thoughts go a long way in determining what position we see our lives…”
As you begin the last day of the last month of the year, I dare you to re-visit your attitude towards your life!
The Attitude Types You Should Avoid In The Coming Year 2015! (1)
The Attitude Types You Should Avoid In The Coming Year 2015! (2)
The Attitude Types You Should Avoid In The Coming Year 2015! (3)
The Attitude Types You Should Avoid In The Coming Year 2015! (4)
Attitude-type-13: The Hating attitude:
“O serpent heart hid with a flowering face! Did ever a dragon keep so fair a cave?…”–William Shakespeare
Over the years, a very poisonous and lethal disease has continuously spread round the world, from person to person. It’s the scariest and deadliest epidemic. Its widespread growth has affected a disproportionate massive number of individuals! It bruises the heart, causes a rapid dysfunction of the mind, brings about endless stress, it kills! This disease is no other than “HATE”.
Seriously, all year round, all some people do is hate! They just can’t and would never be glad for anyone’s achievement. As opposed to giving a civil courtesy of appreciation, acknowledgement or compliment, a hater would rather by default see all the defects in a person or thing whilst silently dying of envy of such person or thing –because a hater deep down is a true admirer!
A hater would truly like to be the individual he or she detests; and since this is unachievable, it becomes safer to hide inside the cocoon of their dark heart and hate from there.You could only get so caught up hating people to the point where it becomes so hard to feel the love surrounding you. The only medicine for HATE is LOVE!
Before the coming year, take an overdose! Let your new year be so full of love so much so that you have no time to hate and when a hate-infected person comes your way, you can say with a smile – “Hello hater. By Hater”!
Attitude-type-14: The Ingratitude attitude:
Do you remember the last time you prayed for what you have now? Do you remember being grateful?
With all the destruction, chaos and anarchy that surround the world on a daily basis, it’s only wise to take a couple of minutes of the day to fundamentally change our physical and mental attitude towards life by living a life of gratitude. Many a time, we complain about the most stupid stuff, we fuss endlessly about the latest societal trends so much so that we forget to appreciate the free and unmerited opportunities we have been given, many of which others are striving hopelessly to attain.
“Gratitude is the attitude that sets the altitude for living.” Be thankful for life! Be thankful for the gifts of family and of friends! Be thankful for both gained and missed opportunities! Be thankful for the little things in life! Be thankful for the life that you have been given! –For every one time that God has provided your needs, great or little, is something to be grateful for!
Attitude-type-15: The zero attitude:
Attitude is everything!
Our attitude has a huge impact on our life. It is how we picture the world. With the right attitude, you have the power to transform your life. Having the right attitude towards life turns everything around! –Problems become opportunities and disappointments become stepping stones to success!
Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it! Hence, we are responsible for the attitude we give off to handling situations, and so, a positive attitude is the ultimate! Maintain a positive attitude even in the worst of situations and watch things work out in your favour.
Wonder how much attitude you must give towards life? 100%! Why?
Here’s An Amazing Fact! – A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E = (1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5) % = 100%
Hope you begin an ongoing self-assessment of your attitude towards your life and start the New Year with a fresh and vibrant new YOU! Wishing You A Happy, Successful and Self-Determined New Year full of positive Attitude!
Written By: ‘Nonye J. Chidolue (@NonyeWrites)